今天小编发视频的时候看到了几年前珍妮佛安妮斯顿拿人民选择奖时候，突然想起她和皮特的那段情，更想起了她离婚时面对采访说的那段著名的话！今天分享给为情所困的你们！
原话：
"It's like the ebb and flow of every relationship," Aniston says. "It's hard; it gets easy; it gets fun again. What's hard to sustain is some ideal that it's perfect. That's ridiculous. What's fantastic about marriage is getting through those ebbs and flows with the same person, and looking across the room and saying, 'I'm still here. And I still love you.' You re-meet, reconnect. You have marriages within marriages within marriages. That's what I love about marriage. That's what I want in marriage. It's unfortunate, but we live in a very disposable society. Those moments where it looks like 'Uh-oh, this isn't working!'—those are the most important, transformative moments. Most couples draw up divorce papers when they're missing out on an amazing moment of deepening and enlightenment and connection."
She sighs heavily and turns away to light a Merit cigarette. "That's not Brad's view of it," she says, glum again. "We believe in different things, I guess. You can't force a relationship, even if it's your view of how you would like it to be conducted. Obviously two people leave a relationship because there's a different thought pattern happening. My goal is to try and achieve a very deep, committed relationship. That's what I'm interested in, but it's someone's prerogative to be or not to be in or out of a relationship
翻译版：
“每段关系都有潮起潮落，“安妮斯顿说。”这很难，很容易，再有趣。什么是很难维持的是一些完美的理想状态。那太荒唐了。婚姻最神奇之处在于，在经过了那么多漩涡和波浪后，站在你身边的还是同一个人。她环顾房间后说：“我还在这里。我依然爱你。每次争执总能让你们重新相遇，重新相知，重新相爱，在婚姻中，你们再展开一段新的婚姻，如此永远延续，没有终点。这就是我喜欢婚姻的原因，也是我希望从婚姻中得到的。但是很不幸，我们生活在一个任性的时代里，一遇到问题，首先想到的就是‘糟糕，过不下去了’，那是最重要、决定性的时刻，因为一旦有了这种想法，人们自然而然就签订了离婚协议，他们不知道，自己已经错过互相迁就、互相认错、重新证明爱情的机会，那才是最美好的。
她叹了口气转身去点燃了香烟。”但是很遗憾，这不是他的婚姻观。”她说，我们的观点完全不同，若观点根本不一致，就无法勉强继续一段关系。很明显，两个人会因为一种不同的思维模式而离开一段关系。我希望获得的是灵魂深处最忠诚的关系，但是他有权选择另一种形式，于是他选择分手。”
因为是好莱坞当年的金童玉女所有受关注的程度很高，小编对安妮斯顿的演技并不欣赏，但她甜美的笑容和婚变后的坚强让我佩服。每一个坚强独立的女性，都在婚姻中寻找“灵魂深处最忠诚的关系”。只可惜并不是所有的男性都会维系这种关系。
而多年后我们的大帅哥皮特缺因为安吉丽娜朱莉而伤心酗酒（或许是因为酗酒而分手），当时看到这个新闻的时候就心想当年的皮特可能真的是不爱安妮斯顿了吧，不然应该像对安吉丽娜朱莉一样的对待她才对。而对于朱莉来说也是一个爱憎分明的独立女性。
其实更多的婚姻中的关系，要不无法涉及“灵魂深处”（例如那些钱包男）；要不就是没有忠诚可言。我忽然间开始羡慕我的父辈，虽然我曾嘲笑过他们以为道德约束而在性格差异极大的婚姻中频发争吵，但是，他们依然勇敢、坚强的一起走过风风雨雨。
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